i had to do it

i had to spank Harry this morning. I was in the kitchen and he was in the living room. Ethan was in his swing sleeping. I here Ethan screaming and when i walk around the corner from the kitchen Harry is on top of Ethan and Ethan's head is pushed forward. I snatched him off of Ethan and gave him 3 swats on the butt, put him on the couch and picked up Ethan to make sure he was ok. Once i was sure he was ok i went back to Harry and told him mommy love's him but he can not do that. He needs to be gentle with Ethan. I'm not sure what he understands but he can't do that. He hasn't messed with him since we first brought Ethan home. I felt like a bad mommy but i don't know how else to get him to stop. I don't like spanking but what other chooses do i have. any one reading this who has a suggestion i'd appreciate it greatly. I did take Harry to McDonald's and to the park thinking that maybe he was feeling neglected by me. I had to bring Ethan with but I don't think Harry minded since he had mommy. I guess thats the end of this post. thanks for reading. Rena